Broke up again. He was my first boyfriend, and I his first girlfriend, and we dated for nearly five years before I broke up with him. 2 days isn't a hugely long time to wait given that you haven't spoken in two years. My ex contacted me a few months ago after 2 years as well. I was invited to her engagement party where she kissed me passionately but … Just take it as an old friend saying hello. The reason for that is because dumpers need a lot of alone time to live their life the way they had envisioned. If it takes much longer for her to get back to you, though, I would stop expecting a reply. He tried to brush up on me … He was my first love (I was 19, he was 21..now 27 and 29) we were together for 5 years. OK well my ex gf (who broke up with me) contacted me yesterday after 2 years of NC through e-mail. It is originally my house. A few hours ago I had a really weird conversation with an ex. My ex and I were together for about a year and a half not very long but we spent a lot of time together. Ex is married and still contacting me after years I don’t get it? There might be a number of reasons to explain this behavior. He was a complete idiot though. My ex tried to contact me. He stated that he was now in a bad relationship that wasn’t healthy. Which of course is 100% untrue. She made a claim that I was e-mailing her ex bf and sending him e-mails saying things about her to him. However, just 4 months earlier he said he was happy with me. It was contact with him that opened old emotions - feelings she felt for him years ago, but had resolved with the breakup and never felt since. This is our second year living together. Anyway, he told that was the reason he didn’t love me anymore. We did two years at home two years long distance and then he finally came to school with me and just started at the university this last fall. She replied to an e-mail address I only use for certain things so it isn't posted on FB, Myspace or anything or anywhere else. Eventually told me he never chased me because he knew I would never sleep with him. We are high school sweethearts. Stated that he had feelings for me and he loves me but needed to get hisself together. But unless you've committed some of the typical post-breakup mistakes, getting back with an ex is not dependent on you—but rather on your ex and the months and years of time. He broke my heart and we split for 6 months. Getting back with an ex after years is possible. Similar situation...ex (the one that got away) contacted after appx 15 years. But about 3 months ago while we were arguing, I told him to get out. Hello, my ex said he wasn’t in love me after living together almost 2.5 years. December 10, 2016 at 2:16 am Lisa. He came back apologetic, but it wasn't the same, I was resentful. I did have an ex from even longer ago contact me years down the road. 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